You’re In — Boundaries That Don’t Suck Is Ready for You
Start with the recorded workshop below, then use the workbook and reminders to apply it to one real boundary in your home.
Small note:
Don’t try to fix everything today. Pick one repeated fight and work through that first.
Step 1: Watch the Workshop
The goal is not to fix every issue in your home today. The goal is to understand the pattern that keeps turning boundaries into fights, then choose one boundary to clean up.
As you watch, pay attention to where you may be pushing harder and accidentally creating more pushback.
Watch the workshop below.
Step 2: Download Your Workshop Tools
Start with the workbook
Use the workbook while you watch the training to turn the TEAM framework into one real boundary for your home.
Don’t just watch and hope it sticks. Pick one repeated fight, work through the questions, and build a boundary you can actually hold calmly.
Phone Screensaver
Save this to your phone as a quick reminder for the moments when things get tense.
When you’re frustrated, triggered, or tempted to jump back into control mode, let this remind you to pause, tune in, and lead instead of react.
Printable Fridge Magnet
Print this and put it somewhere visible — especially where the daily battles tend to happen.
Use it as a simple reminder to stay on your side of the line, ask better questions, and get back on the same team as your teen.
Step 3: Use this Today
Before you close this page, choose one repeated fight in your home.
Not five.
One.
Then use the workbook to answer:
- What expectation needs to be clearer?
- What is my teen responsible for?
- What am I responsible for?
- What will I do if the expectation is not met?
- Can I hold this calmly?
Want Help Applying This to Your Teen?
The workshop gives you the framework.
But sometimes it’s easier to see the pattern when someone else helps you slow it down, sort it out, and figure out what’s actually going on.
If you want help applying this to your specific teen, your specific home, and your specific situation, you can schedule a free consult.
We’ll talk through what’s been happening, where the pattern keeps breaking down, and what your next best step could be.
No pressure. No guilt. Just a conversation about what’s going on and whether coaching could help.
You don’t need to control your teen to lead your teen.
Start with one boundary.
Get clear.
Stay calm.
Hold the line.
You’ve got this!